Dear Cassy: Love versus infactuation
In recent times, schools, community forums and parents have done a good job of talking to teens about sex. At least it’s better than when I was growing up in the ‘70s and ‘80s. Now, we need to talk about healthy relationships and love. Many teens are left to figure this out on their own, which can lead them to entering relationships that are unhealthy or even abusive. A recent study of 18- to 25-year-olds found they want more information from parents about the emotional aspects of romantic relationships. So let’s give it to them. The conversation should start with talking about what a healthy relationship looks like. Sadly, there are many inaccurate portrayals of teen relationships on TV and in movies. Educating teens about how to love should not be that different from educating them about other activities. Here are a few ways to get the discussion going: Healthy relationships require a range of skills, including the ability to communicate honestly, problem solve, measure anger and to be generous. Find examples among relatives, friends, books, your own relationship and relationships on TV shows such as “Blackish,” “Modern Family,” and even “The Bachelor.” How do couples show love…
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