Ask Dr. Allen: The parent as a coach, or whose kid is this?
How many parents have asked themselves, “Who is this person living with me? They’re like strangers! They’ve become someone else. I don’t even recognize them.” After puberty, kids change. They are flooded with hormones that awaken their DNA. They feel more than they have ever felt. They think thoughts they haven’t thought before. Their mind […]
Dear Dr. Allen: Parenting challenges: challenge, listen
by Dr. Greg Allen Parenting needs to be consistent in terms of what we expect and do with our kids. Identify values and subsequent guidelines that are important for your family. Explain these values to your kids. Be consistent with your guidance. Don’t just look for faults or problems. Look for good things […]
Ask Dr. Allen – Parenting Imperatives
by Dr. Greg Allen Stay Connected to your kids: This recommendation has always been an imperative. The kids who get into trouble, or show risky behaviors are usually those who are living in a disconnected world from their parents. This is often because parents are busy with their own schedules and/or kids have a private […]